I was reading an article on essence.com it stated   "Both men and women take a hit after separation," "Women are much poorer financially, men are much poorer socially."
Read more: http://www.essence.com/relationships/dating/women_poorer_less_lonely_than_men_after_breakup.php#ixzz0vZARjtkI

If you're like me somewhere in the past you have tried to help the love of your life( at the time).   

Getting something he/she thought that they needed.  You may have co-signed for a car or added he/she to cellphone account,  loaned them some money or shared habitation.  When the break up came you got stuck with the debt.  Whether it was large or small it still added to the hurt of the break up. 

If your not prepared to pay for these bills it can break you.  You may have to spend your savings or life happens fund to pay this debt to keep it from ruining your credit. 

If the person you are dating does not have a phone, car, apartment, or any other type of credit before they meet you.    Then he/she is not ready to have whatever it is they are asking you to help them obtain. 

So before you use your credit for to help someone remember "What's Love Got To Do With It".    

Are you willing to break the bank??

My new book Sex Lies and Credit deals with topic in more detail.  To get a copy of my new book and credit course, click over to http://www.sexliesandcredit.com/. 

Miss Rene'