Miss Fix It  

I wanted to continue talking about dating.

There are times that we as women pick the wrong men.

We are looking with are eyes wide shut.

We keep listening to that eternal clock instead of our brain.

Just wanting to be with someone and not alone.

I was having a conversation with a friend yesterday about dating and relationships.

We got on this topic of women being a Miss Fix It.

But I can't leave men out of this.

Men can pick the wrong woman for them as well.

For today's conversation we are going just stick to women.

It's been from my own life experience that I have found that when I'm bored I take on a Miss Fix It project.

I will define a Miss Fix It project as someone who you can fix up to be who you know that they can be.

He may be fine.

He  may be good in bed.

He may be very talented.

He may have a lot of bright ideas.

The problem starts when it's all physical and you don't look beyond that.

Your Miss Fix It project doesn't have a valid license.

Your Miss Fix It project doesn't have a car.

Your Miss Fix It project needs a cell phone.

Your Miss Fix It project lives in his mother's basement because he pays to much in child support.

Your Miss Fix It  project may have caught a case but it wasn't their fault they can't find gainful employment.

Your Miss Fix it project has never been loved by anyone.

Your Miss Fix It project just needs a good woman like you.

Your Miss Fix It project is very talented and has dreams.

Your Miss Fix It project just needs a little help getting started because of his credit.

Well Miss Fix It you can't fix him or any other man.

My motto is "If  he's broken like Humpty Dumpty I can't help him put back together again".

Your need to be nurturing is what makes you think that you can fix him.

Women want to be needed.

That is how you turn yourself into a Miss Fix It.

If your wondering Miss Fix It why you always seem to attract the same type of men that need help it's you.

However you feel about yourself Miss Fix It is the energy that you put out into the universe.

He will listen to your every word and become that for you Miss Fix It.

There are many horror stories about women trying to be a Miss Fix It that put their health, wealth and sanity on the line trying to fix a man.

Many women lose money, pile up debt and ruin their credit trying to be Miss Fix It.

I have my own story that is in my new book Sex Lies and Credit.

Once your  Miss Fix It project has gotten all he can out of you he moves on to the next woman.

The truth is Miss Fix It you can't fix him or yourself as a matter of fact.

It will take much prayer and meditation on God's word.

You have to pray for your whole heart to be healed.

Leaving all the old baggage beyond so that you can freely love the person God has for you.

So the next time your bored and need to nurture someone their are many young boys and girls that need someone to care.

There are places that you can work in your church that could use your nurturing spirit.

You can volunteer, tutor, or be a counselor there young people in your neighborhood, local schools or church that need love, attention, and guidance.

The next time you feel like being a Miss Fix It remember the last situation you got yourself out of.

Are you a Miss Fix It???

Your financial coach,

Renee Lawson

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