Renee Lawson

Sex, Lies, and Credit

Sex is everywhere you look the movies (Sex and the City), magazines (Maxim) and the bus stop to name a few.

It makes it very hard when your single to keep yourself.  You should be saving your virtue male/female until your married.  We have it backwards we want the sex before marriage.  So we lose our virtue by falling into temptation to have sex without marriage.    We get caught up in having sex and relate it to love.  However, that's what complicates our lives its love to you but just sex to he/she.

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Settling

Being single and 3o+ with no children has become something of the norm…

Many men/women have chosen to put career before marriage and children. 

Several of my friends and I are apart of this group.  We think of ourselves  as rare commodity.  There are so many of us walking around in major cities all over the US. 

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Friends of the opposite sex

Most people don't believe men and women can just be friends. 

I mean friends without benefits.  

No sex involved.   

It got me to thinking about this whole concept. 

When you are friends with a man/woman and they are married or have a boyfriend/girlfriend they should be able to tell them that you are friends from the beginning of the relationship.  However, if they can't tell their mate that you are friends something is wrong.  Especially if you were friends before they met this person. 

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The Break Up

I was reading an article on essence.com it stated   "Both men and women take a hit after separation," "Women are much poorer financially, men are much poorer socially."
Read more: http://www.essence.com/relationships/dating/women_poorer_less_lonely_than_men_after_breakup.php#ixzz0vZARjtkI

If you're like me somewhere in the past you have tried to help the love of your life( at the time).   

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Celebrating

I began a journey 8/7/2009. 

Along this journey I met someone who I had forgotten existed. 

I had forgotten that they had a beautiful smile.  They were blessed pretty brown eyes.   A funny sense of humor.  Loved to crack jokes.  They had fun and didn't always take life so serious.   They had dreams and passions they wanted to fulfill.  They love the Lord.  They love their family. 

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